a candid in Jusco after dinner.I'm now in a position where the people i know having their OWN emo moment. I don't know how to help them. Yeash, i can encourage them to move on. Yeash i can tell them what i think about what's going on. Yeash, i can be their mind talking when their heart is the one making decisions but the truth is, it's they THEMSELVES that have to make a decision whether it's right or wrong. in that emo state, they'll see wrong as right no matter what.
It hurts me to see the oblivious pain they're inflicting on themselves but what can i really do to make them feel better? I've said all the words they said to me, i've tried to be there when they need me but i realize it needs more than all that to make them feel so much better. We all know time heals wound, i used to doubt it, i used to wish time pass soooo much faster so that the wound would disappear but the truth is, the wound, differs from everyone. Time.. will not just heal the wound... it will make you realize too that, what you're hoping, what you're wishing is just..a hope and wish that may not be realistic at all..
a gift from ben to sandra. Cute isn't it? *she always get the cutest stuffs.* (-_-")Some ppl change drastically after a traumatic break-up, being someone they are not, because.. simply because they want to protect themselves from being hurt again.. i say it's a good thing because you're guarded by the walls build around your heart.. Yeah, maybe you'll get into another relationship, but, have you ever sit in a corner and think, wonder why are you in this relationship? do you think you can slowly give the pieces of your heart to another person who could potentially smash what's left of your broken heart into smaller pieces? or are you just in a relationship because you love the feeling of being loved yet you give nothing in return?
Owh well, the sky's turning dark, better get the laundry in. shall update on last saturday's charity dinner thing as soon as i get all the pictures from Mr.Benjamin Tan. =P
7 comments:
OMG....i left u a super duper long comment leh....aiya...lazy type back lo...sheessh!...damn it...u must be changing the settings when i was commenting...damn it!...stephanie lee!!...sheeessh!...anyway...i said..they said time will take its course and heal...and i'm still waiting till now!...now i know why it takes some people years before they finally move on or ready to take the next step...of cuz heart broken d...scared break into smaller pieces...we wish the next person to be the glue and stick all the pieces together again...then if bad luck...u get a ciplak cheap glue who just does a sloppy and terrible job...making the heart in a more terrible situation it used to be in...ggrrrr!!
ciplak glue? (-_-") yeahhh! so u have to be really cautious when chosing the new glue kay?! ur next glue shall go through the laser interrogation of steph, mel and flo. no worries. we WONT, i repeat, we WONT recommend u ciplak ones kay? hahaha!
maybe hor maybe...on d outside packaging damn canggih...but then hor..buy ade...only realise inside ciplak glue...>.<
Hmmm..then u hav 2 be careful. Check da INSIDE too kay ! Maybe TESTING abit first then u will know. haha..~~!~~
it takes time 2 heal,times where i sit in a corner and think y im in THIS relationship,thats when i know,there are problems!! bad bad thing >.< i guess if someone is happy enuf,u dun needa b thinkin hor?hmmm..*wondersssss*..
the cutest present is from his heart.. =)
hahaha! i do wonder at times and well, it all leads back to how lucky i m to meet someone who tries his very best to give me everything.. xD and yeash chris, the cutest gift is from his heart, u made me realize that.. =)
damn....wonder why this post quite emo 1...nvm...and what with the talking of glue la...u get what u can get...and sometime is ur luck...and another thing also u need to check it through properly before decide to take it back home and do wtr u want on it...well,love always take time to heal and most of the time we in the relationship cos we follow the heart..cos if u are happy nothing else matters....
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