Friday, January 11, 2008

Sometimes..

We can't blame on other ppl for what happened.

We can't blame god for what happened.

We can't blame on ourselves either.

AND

We certainly have NO right to condemn on people.

BUT!

We are mere humans. We do things we shouldn't do. We get rebellious. Some of us has sympathy in us. Some of us, not realizing how much pain we add to their grieve, blame it on them.


catch me if you can.


Just last year, the whole nation went into shocked over the death of Nurin Jazni, and this week, we're all send into panic over Sharlinie's disappearance.

Again, we blame on the parents for her disappearance.

When i read abt Nurin, I WAS blaming her parents, thinking that they were so ignorant to let their gal run about and go pasar malam alone. Yes, i was thinking that way. Then when they released the further detailed story of what happened. I was still thinking, why did they even let her out? she's still a kid! a small, fragile and easily abducted kid!

However, i stop blaming once i put myself in their shoes. They have lost their dear daughter and some of us are blaming them for it. As if, the pain of losing their kid is not enough, we have to condemn them as well. It's unfair.




The media has done its best on educating parents on how to prevent such thing from happening again and yet, and yet, another kid went missing being abducted by another person who tried to lure her with sweets.

I personally ,again, blame it on the parents for letting the kids go to the playground alone but yet again, their anxiety for their kids made me think twice. It's their fault in a way and it's not in another. Nobody wanted it to happen, that's for sure.

Like i've said, the media has done its best over the last case. Now, i think it's time to make stricter laws. In my opinion, i think these law perpetrators aren't afraid of the law conviction. So we should do something better.




Though it's inhumane. But i think it MIGHT be the best way to keep those sick ppl's hand off other ppl's life.

A life for a life. I think that would stop these sick tootie by killing them off one by one. =/ it's true! who wants to die? especially these ppl who deserves to die for the crime they've committed. who ever gave them the permission to be god? to decide who to live and who to die next? Putting them behind the bars, getting whipped doesn't work anymore. These sick tooties aren't afraid of it, but i believe, the death sentence is definitely going to control their sadism. When i say a life for a life, i mean it. cis. they deserve it anyway for taking away someone else's life. this sentence is good for murderer. No, i don't believe in second chances in this case. i don't and i may never be.

As for those rapists? I think they deserved to be castrated. That would keep other rapists-to-be at bay. enough said. They think they can go anywhere and stuck their pole up their victim's?! castrate them for causing a lifetime trauma for the victims. I think that would seriously work. inhumane as it sounds but yeah, since putting them behind bars and whipping doesn't scare them, castrating them would.

For rapists cum murderer. we shall 1st castrate them and then put them to death sentence. HAH! that would SOOOOO teach them a lesson!


Okay, so i'm the one that sound like a total sadistic now but hey, my sadism is for a better generation. However, as much as i like the sound of my opinions.. i doubt it's ever gonna be approved by the human right's organization or whatever.. *shrugs* it's totally brutal which i freaked myself out too.

I m sick of reading news of gals, woman, getting abducted, raped, murdered or released with a lifetime trauma. I m so sick that some people aren't doing their job in catching these sick tooties, and they're catching people speeding in the highway instead. oh i m so sick of them.





I remember the past. I always will. The trauma. The pain. The grieve they had to suffer. I seen it. I felt it. The anger. The outburst. I will never forget.

Sorry for my outburst of emotion. It's just well, a random thing. =/



9 comments:

darren said...

aiya...don blame ppl la...no use also...sometime is not the parent fault u know,cos kid sometime will walk alone on their own..and the parent might be busy until did't know the children wasn't there...so,just make sure ur own kids or frens kids won't be the victim lo...we can't change the ppl anyway...

CHRIS TAN said...

I once blamed them, the parents as well. Till now still the same. Parents still hold the highest responsibilities to take care of their child. Well, it's hard to be a father or a mother.

Shennie said...

oh well, i stopped blamin them already. who i'm blaming is another team of ppl. *winks* if u know who i meant.

Melody said...

Im so feeling u steph! I used to blame them too,ws in d car listenin 2 Mix Fm and heard of that news that this lil gal hasnt been found yet,mom & I was blaming the parents too bt 2 think bout it,its bad enough 2 know deir dear child is missing. Anyways,js drop by 2 say,i totally agree wth u :) lets just hope for the good 2 happen to them,like maybe some found the lil girl or something :)

Shennie said...

yeash yeash, so let us all pray/hope that the gal would be fine..! and of course, we should be aware of our surroundings too.. the news of another missing girl doesnt scare other parents with boys!

my neighbours aged 6-9 were walking around without their parents! just with the shih tzu! omg! i tell you, i was like, the dog cant protect u guys from those sick predators man.. *shakes head*

darren said...

hahahah...oh well,some parent still very simple minded..so,is until when they realise how dangerous the world outside now only will they react...oh well,just hope good thing will happen to the parent who lost their child...

§oŁЇtǺ®ÿ ®o§ě said...

i say.....RAPIST SHUD BE FUCKING RAPE! ahhh...see how they like...1st 1st we find out what they dont like...like they dont like carrots...we force them eat...MUAHAAHHA...then they dont like indians...we pay d other rapist who are indian to rape them...hohoho....if raping them wont change a thing...at least we made them love indians...=/ in a way....oh well....LOL


i say parents are still at fault...they will never learn until they must suffer that lesson themselves....*shakes head* thats malaysians lerrr....

Anonymous said...

kristeee being racist! but then today most parents aren't giving their children much attention, so pretty much nothing you can do about it unless parents start to learn to take care of their children properly.

Sad to see a children being a victim and all the parents can say is how much they regret and hoping to find back their child.

SPAM!

Shennie said...

MING YUEN! This is the FIRST time u ever leave a comment on my blog! wahhh! i damn bangga la wey! xD

Kristine, you really made a damn racist comment there wey! but it's really funny.. =X i mean, if we read it in an OPEN mind. =D and i do agree with u, rape them and castrate them. MWAHAHAHAHAHA! the evil-ness of stephanie! xD

btw, sorry for not updatin yesterday. had a last minute sort of dinner thing going on.