I am Back!

back then.


Hey people!

i know. i know. i've been away for far too long and you guys no longer wanna visit my blog anymore huh? =)

it has been such a long hiatus.

I am sorry for not fulfilling my promise of updating my blog. truly sorry! well, the reason why i haven't been doing so is because i've been so caught up with my uni life. let's just say, it sucks a huge time and i have been having doubts on whether i should continue with my course. well, ben managed to convinced me and so has ming yuen. thank you ming yuen for being there and for noticing the changes in me and manage to somehow, talk me out of those doubts and stuff. you're one of the best besides ben. =P

well, a lot has happened. trust me. especially the new addition in my family.

people, meet Baby Joey Gan Xing Qi!


just born!



and i'm gonna grow up and be a heart breaker.


baby joey is so adorable. she's gonna grow up beautifully, i really do believe that.

and you know what?

everyone loves her. =) even my cousins.hahaha.

i quote from Ryan.

"she's so cute! she look like a baby alien!"

like, wtf? which part? but i suppose that's how Ryan defines cute. hahaha.

alright, i'll update soon again. this time i promise and i will do it. =)

Couple Meme! *got it from Timothy Tiah's blog*

Okay people. Before you proceed on reading, can you please click on the adverts? please? please please please? pretty please? =3 Owh, and btw, i am updating my blog with two posts today so scroll down for more yeah? =) though it is pretty much all about ben and i. you guys are gonna be sick. mwahahaha. XD So it's time for couple meme~ =) yeash, today's our 2nd anniversary, and more to come i hope. =3 Here it goes~
*~ Tell us about the first time you met and your first impression of him/her:

Well, we met through friendster before meeting up on 1st of june 2007. =) we were playing "hide and seek" in MPH which i stupidly walk into him. and i was thinking, "wow, he looks better in person!" and he has got the most friendliest smile. *cheh wah!* X)

*~ What's a weird habit or quirk that he has?

his weird habit? *thinks* not that i can think of. maybe his love for cleaning. teehee~

*~ What makes him sad?

whenever we argue. =( it makes me sad too! and whenever i do things that disappoints him. =(

*~ What makes him angry?

urhm. stupid drivers. little things that makes him frustrated.

*~ What excites him?

eh? computer games! especially rayman! he can do a really good imitation of it!

~* Tell us something funny about him?

owh, just the other day he wanted to let this big one *ps:fart.* and he was telling me he needed to do that and it's gonna have a sound. so i was like okay, just do it outside my room. and then we were talking, suddenly he stood up and walked out of my room and i followed him, giggling. he just stood outside and ask me to go back in and i said, just fart lar. *i always laugh at my family members whenever it's a loud one* and well, he was so shy, it didn't came. teehee~ he thinks it's still too early to fart around each other. XD given that, i'd have been shy too. =P

~* What's he like at home?

he's a good son. always helping out his parents doing stuff. =) he's quite himself. =)

~* What's he like at work/school?

he's VERY serious when it comes to serious stuff. he doesn't fool around and apparently, he's sort of like a tyrant in his old school. but he's really a sweetheart. =)

*~ Describe his room

his room in klang is really neat and clean. he has got a lot of pillows on his bed. his room in subang is.. clean but messy. i think i influenced him a great deal. his room in subang i mean. =P

*~ What's his best friend like?

owh, tom is a really nice person. =) kinda blur at times but easy to communicate with. ben always bully tom. =/

*~ Do you know who he hates the most?

hmmm, not really. he dislikes quite a few ppl. but i dont think it is really bad till i should make note of it.

*~Have you met his exes?

haha. no. they aren't friends no more.

*~ Do his parents like you?

urhm, that you have to ask him. =(

*~ What's the first thing he would do or say if he fell down and scraped his knee?

F*CK! but it's not like he'll make a big deal outta it.

~* What would he do in an emergency situation with other people involved?

he would be the one taking control and stuff. he's not those bystander that watch the whole thing. he'll be the one telling people what to do and all. =)

*~ Which shop would he spend most of the time at in a shopping mall?

urhm, there isnt a shop in particular which he would waste his time on. but he usually spends a lot of time looking at kitchenware if we so happen to pass by. =/

*~ What would he have for a typical breakfast?

eggs? milk if possible or milo. not too sure. coz usually if he's here, we'd either go McD or mamak.

*~ Where would he want to go for dinner?

if we're in klang, it would be D'Tavern in Port Klang, if we're out, it depends. =) he's not a picky eater like yours truly. =D

*~ What kind of movie would he choose at the cinema?

action packed! X) war movies, sci-fi, comedy! anything BUT horror. teehee~

*~ Describe his taste in music?

he's pretty random like me. we can go anything from oldies to modern hits. =)

*~ If he wasn't going out with you, who would he be going out with?

some hot chick. LOL. well, he'd be going out with someone from his coll. i've asked him that question before. but since he's with me, i say it's not so nice to mention who's that girl. *winks*

*~ What item in his wardrobe would you like to burn?

nothing. =) he has a pretty normal dressing sense. =3

*~ What is he good at?

talking! LOL. he's good at cheering ppl up. =) and he's practically good at everything. there isn't a thing that he can't do.

*~ What is he totally horrible at?

controlling his mood swings. =(

*~ What's something about him that is annoying/infuriating?

urh, his mood swings only. and sometimes talking about sensitive stuffs. he's just being too honest. =/

*~ What's something that you two fundamentally disagree on?

a lot of ninny stuff ler. but it's not that bad. hahaha.

*~What's something that you two agree whole-heartedly on?

that person is a **********? =P

*~ Is he possessive?

owh yeah, he is but just enough. =D and i don't mind. i like that a lot. =D

*~ Why would he succeed in life?

he's both street-wise and book-wise. =) an all rounder that can practically do everything that he put his mind on.

*~ What is the coolest gift that he has ever given you?

it would be everything. =) and of course, the most fragile thing ever, his heart. <3

*~ What does he avoid at all costs?

hahaha! those beautiful things that flutters all over the place. *winks*

*~What does he spend the most money on?

me. hahaha. just kidding! he spends his money randomly and usually it is to make people happy. =)

*~ Describe his typical Sunday.

if he's with me, we woud have breakfast and then he'll proceed on bringing me out for movie or shopping. if he's back in klang, he would be doing chores and studying, completing his assignments. =3

*~ Why would he be dangerous?

he.. he.. = = he fights well and he bashes up people. there's this thief that wanted to rob him ended up being beaten by him badly. according to ben, he might have broken that thief's nose.

*~Tell us about a time he looked absolutely gorgeous

urhm. whenever he's all dressed up, he looks really good. =) especially yesterday. i've never seen him wearing pink. he think pink's for gays. i say real man knows how to flaunt pink! =D

*~ What's something about him that would surprise all of his friends?

he's a real softie at heart. i've seen it. XD and and.. he loves ****** too! and gives him kisses as well! XD

*~ What do you love most about him?

well, i love him for him. =) but what i love about him the most is his giving nature. he's always there to help and he's really generous. *ok, sometimes he's quite kiamsiap aso but let's not talk abt that* and his way of going all out to make ppl happy. his grandma loves him lots. she told me that ben's like his dad. a great guy with a big heart. Awwwww. =)

*~ The biggest lesson you have learnt from loving your soulmate.

he taught me a lot of things but most of all, i am learning to be as thoughtful as him. =) his giving nature is so beautiful that i'd really like to be like him but then, of course, to a certain degree where i won't lose my own personality or turn out to be a photocopy of him. and i've learnt to be more confident with myself. i feel really secured when i'm with him. there is not a moment where jealousy is at play. =)

Happy Birthday Bunnie! =3

today is my baby bunnie's birthday! X3


okay, that is so childish but i dont care! i m announcing to the world that i love my baby bunnie. why? because it's a gift from bennie for our 1st anniversary. yeash. =) our anniversary is tomorrow but we celebrated today because tomorrow's a monday and he has got classes so, it has to be brought forward. =)

so he came over on the saturday night with a.. huge bouquet of roses! =)


roses with the world's sleepiest looking girl.


it started at 12am when he gave me that card with our picture on it. *giggles* you don't wanna know what's inside and me giving him an envelopes of coupons. coupons that doesn't come easily. *winks* and that was my gift to him. =) then he proceeded to saying how sorry he is for not getting me any anniversary gift. truth to be told, i wasn't at all disappointed. the card itself was sweet enuf. and we went to bed. hahaha. i was freaking sleepy okay. the picture alone has said enough of it!


Usually i get more than 8 hours of sleep. But ben woke up early like around 8am? he went out of the room and tried to get into sandra's room. *her room was locked*, so he meddled with the lock for awhile until sandra got irritated and opened the door for ben. *i found out that part later* then he came into my room and closed the door. i tossed, irritated. *i'm a light sleeper, the slightest sound could jolt me awake*. then he climb onto my bed and hugged me. basically, he wants me to wake up. he asked me to sit up and he promised i wouldn't regret it in one bit. so i sat up. and he plop this silver box on my lap.



*shocked*


i was shocked. seriously. i didn't expect this. then i looked at him blurly and vaguely pick up the box.




i slowly open it as i was still half blur from sleep.





and i was fully awake. it was gleaming nicely. at that moment, i felt like i was being proposed and i was near tears. then i looked at him, is it real? *because he has already given me one, and he, himself one. and.. well, whether it is real or not, it is for you to find out and for us to know. LOL. =D

and yeash, i was fully awake. =D then we went for breakfast. MAMAK! =D i was thinking of McD's pancakes but it's so fattening. how come tasty food are always so fattening?!

Went back home, lepak for awhile ; reading newspapers and ben practising his singing. =) then we got ready to sunway pyramid. ben bought tickets for terminator salvation on last friday. so basically we had secured really good seats. =) have i mentioned, we camwhored quite a lot at home? =D


classic pose. LOL.



picture one. =D


yeash people. mirror in the living room. teehee~



puppy eyes!

initially we planned to have dinner in pyramid at TGIF's but then suddenly ben mentioned about having korean buffet, Seoul Garden. and we made a hasty decision but agreeing to go korean buffet and this time, we're bringing along sandra with us! =) and then we decided to check out the Seoul Garden at Pantai Plaza because it looks bigger than the one in ONE U. So Seoul Garden at Pantai Plaza it is.

Okay, backtrack! So we went to pyramid for our movie. the place was packed! finding parking was hard. we almost considered jokey parking before ben found a spot at the hotel parking. like seriously. it was almost full house! then only we found out why, it's because there was two events going on there. One is the dutch lady milk van thing with all the radio crews there and another is the movie carnival not to mentioned the daily sales going on.

ben and i went for a mini shopping trip since we had another 45 minutes before movie. we walked around rather aimlessly as he has nothing to buy and so do i. X)




Terminator Salvation is so cool! X) it's totally up to my expectation. i wasn't disappointed and so was ben. i shall not be a spoiler but.. christian bale is so hot! though i'd preffer him clean shaven.
and the half man-half machine actor is pretty good looking too! XD and and Anton Yelchin is so frigging cute! i already noticed him in star trek! =P and the little kid.. stupid credits for moving so fast, you can barely see the names except for christian bale's as john connor, duh.

owh well, directly after the movie we went home to pick sandra up before heading to pantai plaza for dinner. and it was.. bad. the place isn't run by chinese no more. =( and it looks very dingy. sandra said the interior lights look like those pasar malam one. you know light bulbs hanging down a string or something like that? =/ the food was good but.. the utensils aren't that clean. even the cup smells weird.

well, dinner was okay. =) chit chat and stuff sides the dingy place la. aih. but at least now we know that ONE U's Seoul Garden is far better than the Plaza Pantai one. =)


because i can. LOL.


so overall, it is a pretty good day. =) simple and normal. nothing to complicated. =) and i like it really. =3 besides dinner. Teehee~


hey bunnie, it's your birthday! we're gonna party like it's your birthday~

Chilling at Sky Bar.

So what if it was a Thursday night. We still had fun!

So Kristine's exam has finally ended! Hooray! *cheers* and she was so keen on hanging out and i was keen on having a look at what sky bar's like ever since my elder sis mentioned about it and i say bring it on! =D Surprisingly my parents didn't say anything about me going out to a bar. The benefits of being on a holiday. Whee~


what is it like from our seat.

Thanks to kristine's planning, we manage to get one of the good spot. Our view was gorgeous. Overlooking KL city. As much as we hate it, i think we love it too when it's at night because of the lights! =) Orange light looks so good at night. I love looking at KLCC at night, it's beautiful from far, even more beautiful upclose. However, the not so good part is that, the place was actually kind of stuffy being open air and without air-cond.


drink. drank. drunk.

So we all agreed on ordering a bottle of white wine. Ben was given the honour to do so as he has more knowledge on what's nice and what's not. Drinking wine doesn't get one drunk. But it does makes one feel a bit high. =D So overall, the whole night was a lot of talking (on random stuff) and camwhoring. As you can see, the 1st pic was taken in the toilet. I like the toilet. For me, a toilet is very important. I hate going to places where their toilet is as good as the sewerage itself.


The very 1st one. Kristine look so cute. She reminds me of =3


we've been so long. =) you have seen my changes and i've witness yours. =)


bennie and me~ =)

Okay so one thing is, i didn't take a pic with darren. =/ The place is cool. But the pool (yeash, swimming pool) took up quite some place hence the walking path is actually quite small and our seat space is pretty tiny. but the tinyness makes us more close to each other? LOL. and also make it hard to move about even if we're in our own zone. And on a randomness, i wonder if any drunkies have fell or barfed into the pool before. hmmm. if i was a hotel guess there, i don't think i want to find out but then again, i think people had barfed into it before. *shudders* as much as i like to swim, i think i'll pass that pool, thank you.


them doing their gay thing.


ben and i doing OUR thing. =D


WTF right? but i'd like to think myself as that seeing that i've never been passed off as Hot. =(


me, always, always with the sleepy look. jeesh!


us trying to pass off as.. i don't know. kristine looks like she wanna kill!


you belong with me by taylor swift.


Hmm.. On another note, someone joined us at the bar! =) It's one of our online pal. okay, he found me somewhere (lol, i don't know which social profile) and i intro-ed him to kristine and he has been asking her out for so many times but never really made it until that day. i'll present you guys, Seng Kit. LOL.


yup. that's the dude!


He's quite a nice person but a bit quiet. hmm. maybe it's just because we're so damn loud! i caught people from the nearby table giving us the "shuddup" look for quite a few times. oh my. X) or maybe i'm just so paranoid. hahahaha!


wanna pose but fail oh so miserably.


i like this one. i like leaning on her. she's so nice to lean on. =3 not just physically but emotionally as well. teehee~!


nope. not going down yet. =)

actually, it's not just their toilet that looks good. heck, even their lifts looks good too.


the lift as backdrop.


Sorry, we really couldn't resist it. It's just so homely looking. =P


The camwhores.


So, another chilling session? =) let's pick another place as nice as this! then we'll have a lot more funny looking pics. hahaha! and at the same time, great pics. =)